I told a friend recently that if he wanted to gain confidence as a public speaker, he should practice. I told him to just accept any invitation, large or small, and get some hours down.
He thanked me but also mentioned he wanted his confidence to come from God, from his faith. He wasn’t being snooty or anything, trying to passively let me know what a great Christian he was, because if he’d been doing that, I’d just have shrugged my shoulders and let it go. But my friend was being genuine.
The truth is, though, he could have all the faith in God he wanted, but if he really wanted confidence as a public speaker, he’d need some hours. God wasn’t going to grant him confidence. Even Moses had absolutely no confidence. And God even stopped the mans stutter. It was experience that gave Moses confidence.
The funny thing is, if you wanted to be a locksmith or a plumber or a cab driver, you’d never pray and ask God to magically give you the ability. That’s not how God designed life. But in those fuzzy areas of emotions, we suddenly believe God is going to act like a magician.
The Christian faith is a practical faith. God employs experience in order to teach us, to develop our abilities. And even then, He is more interested in the interaction He has with us in the process than He is in teaching us anything at all. God is not our boss, He is our Father. The whole world is an educational playground God is using to bring you toward perfection, to raise you as His own child.
If we believe God is a genie with a wand granting wishes and doing magic tricks, we don’t understand the God of the Bible.
God gave David confidence keeping lions from his sheep, then killing Goliath, then running a country, God did not give David a country and then instill in him magical confidence.
It is very difficult for us Americans to believe in the God who guides us through educational experiences. Advertising teaches us that if we invest something, we get magical products that solve our problems. But God is more interested in being with us, than in entertaining us from a stage.
Are there contradictions to this? Absolutely. But there aren’t many.
I have a pastor friend who, for a while, decided to stop preparing his sermons. He’d just read the Bible and pray all week, and then get up on Sunday morning to preach. He quit after a while because everybody thought his sermons were terrible.
The truth is, if you do the work and gain the experience, you’ll have more confidence because you’ll actually know what you’re doing, and you will have spent some great time with God.
This wasn’t what i expected to hear; or more likely not what i wanted to hear. But, although, I truly acknowledge that it is true. It makes sense definitely. (You know it’s funny that my name is David and I have been seeking for an answer to being confident. Especially for public speaking. I have always been timid, weak, and dependent.) Thus, this has affected me allot when it comes to school presentations. I have come to the point where I think of how to avoid them. Recently assigned an upcoming presentation and spoke to the professor. I told him about my problem and he permitted me to give him a one-on-one presentation.(Embarrassing) (Also, did you notice that the lord has used your article with my name. This was on purpose and intending to do so for me(Also for others). I’ve been recently reading the bible, Exodus, n this has to do with Moses. I’ve also been comparing myself with Moses because I’ve also asked god, “God, why did you supply Moses with help, Aron, and why can’t you do that with me?”
But, anyway thanks for submitting this– informative and almost perfect in God’s response. I guess I’m just going to have to try his way. Although, I need to also go step by step; just like David did.
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