30May, 2011

The Hangover

Went to see The Hangover 2 tonight with Paige. I honestly thought the first movie was great. And it was funnier the second time. But the sequel stunk. Actually, it made me a little angry because it felt like they made it for the money. As always, I tend to think about life when I watch a movie. Stories are just summaries of people’s lives, so there can be common themes between a good story and a good life. Do I dare pull life lessons from The Hangover? Why not? I’ve got nothing to blog about tonight. What The Hangover II lacked was a lot of what is lacking in most people’s lives, I think, and I’m not talking about drugs and Mike Tyson. The movie lacked a heart. The movie was inauthentic and fake and for that reason wasn’t very funny. Here’s the rundown: 1. Whoever wrote it was in it to entertain, not to tell a good story. The writers went for the cheap laugh rather than the meaningful story. It’s like that guy at the bar who is trying too hard and hasn’t found his true self. It works for a minute, then it gets old fast. [...]

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26May, 2011

I confess I’m the type of person to hold a grudge. It’s not that I want power over people, which is often the motive for holding a grudge, it’s just that I want all-due glory for my suffering. What I mean is, if somebody is causing me some pain, I want them to know I am bearing it for them. For this reason, it’s hard for me to forgive my enemies. If people slam me on the internet, it’s hard to forgive. If people screw me in a business deal, it’s hard to forgive, too. And for so long it seemed there was nothing I could do about it. I knew I’d be better off to forgive, but how? What are the steps to controlling your uncontrollable emotions? I don’t fully know the answer to that question. Part of the reason it’s so hard to forgive is pride. If I forgive, it feels like I’m also saying they had the right to do me wrong. That doesn’t feel right. But it’s a real feeling. And also, if I’m having to forgive somebody who really has no idea what they did that was wrong, which is even more difficult, because you [...]

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20May, 2011

I’ve heard plenty of Christians talking about partnering with God in His work. I think this is a great concept, but usually when that work is explained it’s incredibly limited. When people partner with God in his work, they’re often talking about building the church, and even then the church is so narrowly defined you’d think God’s work was exclusively about building small, academic institutions in which people study theories about God. I think God is truly working to build those small academic communities we commonly think of as church, but the whole church is much larger and less easily defined. God can see the church but we can only feel around in the dark and recognize it when we see a common Jesus in a neighbors heart. That said, I think God is working on much, much more than building the church. If we look at the work God has done, we see God has made beauty, so I think creating beauty is Gods work. We see that God has created structure and order, so cultivating a place is God’s work, too. God created love, and seeks to protect love, so creating and protecting love is Gods work and [...]

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Very few good paragraphs come to me while I am sitting at my computer. Of course that’s necessary, but usually the ideas come while I am walking the dog or doing the dishes. Then I rush over to a pad of paper or my computer and take some notes. Because I have a dog, I end up at the river or a local park every day, just throwing a ball and watching her chase it down. It’s during these times that my book often comes together. A new chapter or a new thought will come to me when I get my body moving. If you’re stuck with your book, don’t hesitate to get up and clean the house. Just make sure you’re still alone and still able to continue thinking. Taking a walk with a friend might work but you’d really only be able to talk about your project. You’re still writing, even though it looks like you’re taking a break or doing something else. Stay in the writing project, but get your body moving to dislodge some of those new words. On a typical writing day, I’ll walk the dog five or six times, and each time I come [...]

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Just yesterday my girl Paige and I were doing some grocery shopping and started talking about how much of life is lived to maintain life itself, that is we farm (or shop) to eat, we make (or buy) clothes, we monitor our bodies and employ them to rest and to exercise, all to farm and make clothes. After thinking about this idea more, I meshed it in my mind to the story of the Tower of Babel and how God destroyed a cultures attempts to reach God, a luxurious and ridiculous effort born from the modernization of the culture, the existence of a slave culture, no doubt, and a lot of free time. The narrative of that account combined with the amount of time it takes our God-designed bodies and minds to simply sustain our temporary existence leads me to some comforting facts: 1. God is not interested in using you to build anything that might be used to replace him or give you the false sense you can interact with him without giving him all agency. 2. What God wants us to do here on earth is something we can do while doing something else. And so I’m learning [...]

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