Today’s guest post is from my old friend Bob Goff. Bob has a book coming out next month called Love Does and you can pre-order it here. Here’s an excerpt: Ever since I was a kid I wanted to sail across the Pacific Ocean to Hawaii. Every other year, there’s a race from Los Angeles to Hawaii – it’s called the Transpac Race. For safety reasons, the rules require that competing boats be forty-five feet or longer with a full crew. But on this particular year, they changed the rules to allow smaller boats to go, so a couple buddies and I signed up to enter the race in a thirty-five-foot sailboat. Now, thirty-five feet doesn’t sound that small at first, until you figure out that it’s about twice the length of a Toyota Camry and a little narrower. After you subtract the pointy end, it’s about the size of a 1960s VW bus filled with twenty-five huge bags of sails, a life raft, six cases of Stagg chili, six hundred bottles of water, five guys, and a porta-potty. Come to think of it, that’s what a lot of 1960s VW buses still look like inside. The plan was simple. [...]

This month I’ve been traveling with Steve Taylor who directed Blue Like Jazz. Steve is the engine behind the movie and has been from the beginning. I’d even say Steve was the principle writer. On set, Steve displayed the best example of leadership I’d seen to date. He was strong on task, but open to everybody’s ideas. Even while filming ten to twelve hour days, he took time at night to write thank-you cards to crew. I learned that from one of the ladies in the make-up truck. I learned a lot about leadership from Steve. I learned you can’t railroad your way but you can lead with a vision, hard work and a lot of kindness. Steve also taught me something about life while we were filming the movie. He taught me that we all need a director, somebody to call the shots and to remind us about the overall arch of our story. Movies aren’t shot in the order of scenes in the screenplay. You may be shooting the first scene of the screenplay followed by the last, all in a day. This means actors had to know the script inside and out to understand where their character [...]

Last year I interviewed Pete Carroll, head coach of the Seattle Seahawks. We spent two hours in his Seattle office, talking about leadership, humility, success, family, spirituality, politics and everything else save the one topic he speaks of so often, football. I interviewed Coach Carroll to learn more about the work he started with inner-city, at-risk kids while he was coaching the USC Trojans in LA. Several years ago Coach Carroll started a program called “A Better L.A.” providing opportunities for under-privileged kids in the inner city. He has since duplicated that program in Seattle. Coach Carroll started the program after driving to work at USC one morning and hearing a report about gun violence between gang members in a nearby neighborhood. The next day he learned of another killing and by the end of the week eleven gang members were dead. Most of us would have heard similar reports and felt bad for the kids and their families, but we wouldn’t have associated ourselves with a solution. Perhaps if we were social workers we’d know a theory or a program, but Coach wasn’t a social worker. He was running the most successful college football operation in the country. And [...]

Sarcasm may have it’s occasional place, but people who are too often sarcastic are protecting themselves. Not long ago I was talking with an older, wiser friend and when she asked me a difficult question, I made a joke. My friend laughed but then noted I often made jokes when it would be more appropriate and healthy to connect. She said I was definitely funny but she’d rather know the real me than to watch me hide. Ouch. The truth is she was right. I was hiding. Sarcasm and joking around are great in moderation, but often what hides behind the cynical exterior is a heart that’s been hurt (if that last line made you search for a sarcastic comeback or a joke, you’re likely the person I’m talking to.) So here’s a little experiment for you. If you’re the type to joke around a bit too much, take a break for the next 48 hours. When you’re tempted to tell a joke, don’t. Instead, move toward the people you are with. Ask them serious questions about their work, their relationships, their dreams. Connect on a real level rather than trying to entertain. Your heart will thank you. * If [...]

10Mar, 2012

If you’d like to attend our movie Premiere in either Nashville or Portland (to be determined based on logistics) we will fly one lucky winner (and a friend) out and set you up with passes. All you have to do is share our trailer. Sharing the trailer is the best thing you can do to help us spread word about this movie and get it into theaters on April 13. And we want to reward you guys for sharing it. We’ve even made it easy. To enter the contest, simply click here. Fill in your name and use the buttons at the bottom of the page to share the trailer on Facebook and Twitter and you’ll be automatically entered to win the flights. Want an even better chance at winning? Have a friend enter the contest too and agree if either of you win, you’ll take each other. The chances of winning this contest are quite high compared to other contests. Most contests have hundreds of thousands of entries, but we are a low-budget, small film. So take the thirty seconds so we can fly you out to our big party! Mark April 13 on your calendar, folks. It’s coming [...]

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